you are what you say

have you heard of this - "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"?

do you know why?
because when you say bad things about others, you are actually make yourself look bad, not them.
i'm not saying that you can't criticize or complaint about anything.
it IS okay to critique someone's work, but it is NOT okay to criticize others.
there's a big different between those two.

you are what you say.
what you say about others reveals a lot about you.

LOL i don't know why i came out with this entry.
i don't have problem with anyone saying bad things about others.
this entry is purely a public service message.
remind others & at the same time remind myself too.

nanite, lovelies!